renting vs buying

i thought this would make a good topic to write about as we have rented and bought a house. and this is just my thought and feelings on this subject.

okay for right now with mike being in the military renting a house is a whole lot better then buying one. yes you have to follow what is on the lease. yes you have to pay a deposit if you want to have a pet. and so on and so on but with moving around alot it is just easier.

now if mike wasnt in the military but had a good stable paying job we would be buying a house as buying a house is so much better then renting.

when you buy a house you can do anything you want to do that house. if you want to paint walls you can paint the walls in what ever color you want and if you ever move out you dont have to repaint them back to a white or loose your security deposit one. there is all kinds of things you can do if you owned a home vs to renting. so yes buying is so worth it if you are not moving around a whole lot. i am looking forward to the time when we will be able to buy a another house and wont be moving out of it again.

kids having sex and birthcontrol

i thought i this would make a good topic to post about. kids having sex. i am not sure if i will keep the title but i can not think of anything else to name it. so it may just stay kids having sex. okay i just have to say a few things about this and it may make some people mad and it may not but i think i need to say this. i think there are a few reasons why that there are young girls and boys at the age of 13 (possibly younger) and 14 years old that is out there having sex. one reason why i think this is because of being pressured into having sex by their friends. and other reason why is that i think that some parents dont talk to their kids about sex. they dont tell them that they could get pregnant or get a std. the only thing that they probably tell them is do not do it. they also dont talk to them about birthcontrol. yes i know 13 and 14 is a young age to talk to your kids about this but they are out (not saying all of them are) having sex. if not yours maybe a friend of yours kid is having sex or a niece or nephew one. just dont assume that your kids are not thinking about sex or having sex. because nearly 9 out 10 kids are thinking about sex or is having sex. now i am not saying telling your kids that is okay to have sex at that age because it is not okay for them to be having sex at that age. all i am saying is stop being scared and talk to your kids. i am also not saying that all parents are not talking to their kids about this because some are. but there are some out there that is to scared to talk to their kids about this subject and they just decide just to let them learn about sex though health class at school and let me tell you they dont know learn to much about it. they learn more frome their friends then what they do from their parents. am i saying give them every single detail or drawing them pictures of how to have sex. no i am not saying that. just talk to your kids. let them know that if they have questions they can come to you. and if you are a aunt or uncle let your nieces and nephews know that if there is anything that they can not talk to their parents about that they can come and talk to you. i did that with my nieces and nephews and yes there has been times that they have needed someone to talk to and i am glad that they felt comfortable coming to me. i hope that even though they are getting older that they know they can still come and talk to me if they need someone to talk to.   i was lucky that when i was 13 that i had parents that would sit down and talk to my brother and sister and i about sex and about not letting our friends pressure us into doing anything that we do not want to do. i also think that people needs to stop leaving it up to the females about supplying birthcontrol. yes i think if you have daughters you need to teach them the importants it is about birthcontrol and either carry them to a doctor or learn more about the different kinds of birthcontrol out and talk to them about it. i also think that if you have a son that you need to talk to him about the importants of going out and buying condoms. you know that about 8 to 9 out of 10 boys are to scared to go into a store and buy condoms. i also think that they should be more sex ed class in schoools and maybe even have a nurse to supply condoms to boys and girls. some people may think that is wrong and it shouldnt be up to the schools to teach kids this and you are right but stop and think. if theses parents that are to scared to talk to their kids about sex then how are theses kids going to learn about birthcontrol and that they could get a std or get pregnant. i also think that theses kids needs to really see what it is like to be a teen parent. i think that if they could see how hard it is to be a teen parent then maybe just maybe they will neither not have sex or use birthcontrol. and yes sometimes birthcontrol isnt 100% protected from pregnancy or them getting a std but maybe just maybe they will think more about this before going to have sex.

drama and facebook

i am sure you all have heard of it. drama and facebook. well just drama and any kind of social media. i think that drama just needs to stay away from theses things. i try to stay out of drama. but sometimes it finds me. sometimes it is family that causes drama. what i really hate seeing on facebook is when a mother and daughter is fighting (and no this is not about my mom and i) about a month or so ago one of my cousins and her daughter was fussing on facebook. no i didnt say anything to them about (let me tell you it was very ugly) but   to me i think they both was just trying to make the other look like the bad person when in truth they was making each other look bad by trying to calling each others names( no i will not say the names they was calling each other ). but i did put on my facebook status “You know I find it that Facebook or other social media is not a place to be fussing or fighting. If you want to fuss and fight do it in private. Because no ones to see you fuss and fight.” that is word for word what i said. as you can see i didnt mention any names. the other day i was reading in a family members comments on her status she posted and i seen where this cousin of my was still friends with her. and i was like hmm i havent seen anything about she was doing so i went to her profile and i notice that we was not friends anymore. so she had deleted me. and you know i am glad that she did because i so do not need people who are nothing but drama in my life. and i am glad i do not have to continue to see if her and her daughter is still fussing and fighting on facebook. 

yes i think social media like facebook is a good place to keep up with friends and family that doesnt live close by. (as long as you are not finding out important things on there, like me finding out that my oldest nephew was getting marrried. now let me tell you that really hurts to have found out that way. ) but i do not think that social media is a place to start fussing and fighting or causing drama. ( mike and i both has started deleting people who tries to cause drama with us on any social media. ) to any of my readers out there please stop and think before you start any fights or drama with anyone on a social media. stop and think is it worth to have your family and friends to see all that. or is it worth to have to deal with any of that. and if anyone tries to start any thing with you just delete them off of your friends list and go about your day.

time for alittle update

just thought it was time to do a little update. things are going good. i am starting to feel better. finished up my antibiotics a week ago on thrusday. things are starting to look up in money wise for mike  and i. the house we was selling in alabama finally sold this month. so next month we should have a little extra to put towards other bills and should have some in the savings also. and we are still hoping that next month we will get to do that round of fertility drugs we have been mentioning for a while now. so hopefully in a month or so we will be writing a blog about being pregnant. yes i will write probably every day that i do the fertility drugs and give my experience with them or i may wait and make one long blog about it one. but i am not to sure about that yet. i guess you will see when that time comes lol. yes i know i am not good at blogging and i am sorry for that. i have been trying to blog once a month to twice a month. i need to find topics to start blogging about. but then again i do have a blog on book reviews and that is slow going. i need to finish reading the book i am reading and get a review about that. i think it has been nearly a month or longer since i blogged on that. but anyways. if there are any topics you would like for me to blog about just let me know. i could use good topics. and please nothing about politics. i really do not want to blog about politics as this is not a blog about politics. if you want to read about politics go read it on another blog.  just thought of a blog to write and i will write it after i get done with this one. well i guess i will go and start writing about the topic i just thought of. i hope you all are doing good and are happy and healthy.

Hair growth

Well I decided to measure the length of my hair today. It has gotten alittle bit longer. I am still doing the things I had said in the first entry that I wrote about me going my hair out. Just wanted to update you about how it is going. And post a picture to show that it is growing.

sept is here already

yes i know i am alittle late in making this post but yesterday i didnt feel like posting it and saturday we was traveling back home. so here we are posting this now.

the month of aug went by pretty fast and pretty good. not a whole lot happened in aug to really write about (well besides the stuff i have done wrote about so we will not write about again lol ). i guess i will write about my birthday. i had a wonderful birthday this year. mike carried me down to the beach (galveston, tx) for my birthday. we left on the evening of the 29 so i got to wake up in a hotel on a beach and have breakfast in bed. after we ate breakfast we went down to the beach and took some pictures and just enjoyed it before it got to crowded. then we went to lunch and the rested some and then went on a dolphin tour. at first i didnt think we was going to see any dolphins but they started to come up to the surface. then we went back to the hotel and cooled off and rested from walking around trying to find a atm machine close to where we was parked at. then we got ready to go eat my birthday dinner. we went to the rainforest cafe and let me tell you their pot roast is so yummy.  one thing that i wish wouldnt have happened on my birthday and that is that i wish the uti had left me a lone. i started to get a uti then. and then on friday we didnt do to much as i didnt feel like doing to much. we did go down to the pier and walked around it and had some of those old fashion looking photos taken. we decided on dressing like pirates. and we also played a couple of games (well mike did) and then we went to lunch at the bubba grump. we  came home on saturday and basicly as soon as we got home i went to the urgent care to get something for this uti. i hope that it will go away soon and i will not have to go back to the doctor for it. that was my birthday trip

we dont have much planned for sept. we are just going to go with the flow. if anything interesting happens we will write about that. i hope you all have a wonderful month and that you all stay safe.